Monday, 24 November 2025

Behave!

 

Behave!

How often in your life have you been instructed to ‘behave?’

Do you behave?

Can you behave?

I’m not sure what ‘have’ means. Is it good, or quiet, or polite, or kind, or invisible?

When I’m told to behave, my answer is usually, ‘I’m being have.’ 

47 comments:

  1. It is funny how we use expressions, say expressions, but never really stop to think what they really mean. Interesting thoughts

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    1. Thinking without speaking is preferable to speaking without thinking. 😁

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  2. Your behaviour in creating this blogpost was quite appalling. Why can't you behave yourself young lady?

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  3. I might have been told that a few times, and I might have said it to others a few times.

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  4. Rather like when we were all instructed to 'Be a Lert' during the covid lockdown...

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    1. I have a little book called 'I was raised to be a lert' written by a one-time blogger.

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  5. You forgot to mention the look which goes with behave, my mum had it to perfection.

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  6. I've never been told to behave by parents or teachers since high school. Presumably daughters who have gone overseas, moved into their own flat or concentrate on university are... mature-ish.

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    1. It becomes more of a joke as one grows older.

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  7. I've been told to behave a lot of times. I do behave. Sometime badly.

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  8. The words that were always said to me " you better behave or else" . As a kid I'm not sure what either one of those two words meant, lol.

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    1. . . . and no-one ever explained what 'or else' meant!

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  9. I'm interested in the reasons you are told to behave, rather than your smart **** reply.

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  10. Same answer from me. Oh goodness...no telling how many times this phrase is used each and every day.

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  11. That's a perfect answer!
    Whether I behave or not totally depends on the situation :-) xxx

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  12. I'd never thought of it this way - now I always will - great fun!
    Alison in Devon x

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  13. I wish I had a dollar for every time in my first 19 years of life being told to behave! I could buy a new car. evidently I can NOT behave. my mother used to grab my thigh in church and pinch and twist which was her silent 'behave" I love the way you look at thsi

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  14. I behave and misbehave; it depends on my mood!!

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  15. This does not stand out in my memories guess I was good! -Christibe cmlk79.blogspot.com

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  16. I never thought about this meaning of behave. You re sending me to my dictionary. I've often been told to "behave myself.

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  17. We used to tell my 94 year old father-in-law to "behave" when we would leave him. And of course, this rebellious old character would always ask, "why?" Ohhh, Pops!

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  18. My mother used to tell me to behave, or be a good girl. A teacher in comprehensive school used to say "4a2 will you please behave" She wasn't very confident!

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  19. Teaching teenagers must be like trying to tame hedgehogs! 🦔🦔

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  20. lol! Everyone behaves . . . :-) xx

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  21. lol. I have been told to and have done so more when I was younger. Now I am grown and in charge.. how dare someone tell me to behave?

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  22. Interesting question actually. Why have or be have?

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  23. LOL I think I've been told/asked to behave a lot of times!

    All the best Jan

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    1. Is there anyone who hasn't been told so? Maybe not the people brought up by 'permissive' parents . . .

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  24. Behaving? What's that? Seriously, I tend to behave. Most of the time, anyway.

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