Boxing
Barry has always maintained his interest in boxing, but his fighting days are far behind him. While he watches boxing, I watch him and smile as he twitches his shoulders as though he’s in the ring. I suppose it’s muscle memory.
I never saw him fight, though I did see some of his training – running backwards up hills, press-ups, shadow boxing, skipping. The rhythm and pace of the skipping was impressive, the leather rope hitting the floor with regular beats. It made my skipping look very amateurish – if I could manage one double jump I thought I was doing well, but Barry could do umpteen in succession and do cross-overs as well.
Our eldest daughter was convinced, probably still is, that she had seen her father box, but she hadn’t – an example of false memory syndrome, I suppose, though I don’t remember boxing being discussed much in front of her when she was little.
One might think that all the rhythmic footwork would make a boxer a good dancer. Maybe some of them are, but dancing with Barry – our attempts at jiving, anyway – was more like being in a boxing ring. No punching was involved, of course, but I sometimes felt I needed ropes to bounce me back to him. Then his knees gave out and we stopped trying.
