Freelance
Where did this expression originate? Were freelancers otherwise known as mercenaries, ‘lances for hire,’ ready to fight for whoever would pay them?
I digress. Our middle daughter, Susannah, is an excellent organiser. Weeks ago, she organised a day’s sailing for her father, brother, and eldest nephew. As the time drew near, she fretted over weather forecasts, but all looked set fair for a glorious day on the Solent. Every day this week the weather was beautiful until today, the day of the projected sail. The forecast was dismal. After much deliberation, they decided to make the most of it anyway. It might be a bit damp and there probably wouldn’t be much wind, but they’d have a good day out together.
Susannah is a television producer. When her contract ended recently, she became freelance. ‘Times is hard’ and jobs are few and far between. The nature of the work means that she is called at sometimes very short notice to work unsocial hours. That happened on Friday evening and she found she would be required to work all weekend as well as next week. She was very torn. Obviously, she couldn’t refuse the job, needing to keep her name in the forefront of potential employers’ minds, and not knowing when or if another would crop up any time soon. She thought long and hard about taking her laptop with her to the boat, so that she could work there. Reluctantly, she decided against that, needing to be on immediate call, and concluding that it would be difficult to concentrate on the job.
She was really upset, especially when her brother, Gareth, drove up with one of his sons. It was the right decision, but it has unsettled her. She had intended staying with us for a few days, but now has to return to London, as the job requires her to go to the office on Tuesday.
The men had a most enjoyable day. The sun shone, the wind blew gently, and the projected rain didn’t appear until late afternoon. It was very pleasant for them to spend time together. Callum, our eldest grandson, and Louis, Gareth’s younger son, are close in age, and employed in the same world as their elders.
Meanwhile, Susannah has highlighted another day for sailing. If nothing else, it may ensure that she is provided with work! She wasn’t very amused by that observation.
(Postscript: I just looked up the derivation of freelance and found the following:
The term “freelance” originates from the Middle Ages, where it was used to describe a “free lance,” referring to a medieval mercenary or knight who was not permanently employed by any lord or king. These knights offered their services to the highest bidder, often being hired for specific battles or campaigns.)
Very interesting. And I do feel for Susannah. What a difficult position to be in. My own younger daughter, Sarah, has experienced something similar recently. I hope Susannah's situation resolves for the better very soon.
ReplyDeleteEmployment everywhere seems to be uncertain. It's hard for those with set outgoings.
DeleteAh, this space where one is torn between professional and personal. It's so hard to miss those rare opportunities.
ReplyDeleteIt's difficult to make the sensible decisions, sometimes.
DeleteYour daughter is obviously a dedicated worker and also dedicated to her family. Hope her work continues in the right direction and one day soon she can enjoy a great day sailing. She would not have liked it here, as it is barely above freezing and harsh wind out of the north. Our winter will not loosen it's grip.
ReplyDeleteIt seems that winter seems to let go for a little while where you are, then tighten its hold again. Not nice.
DeleteYour daughter has a good work ethic. I hope everything works out for her.
ReplyDeleteThank you. She's no slacker.
DeleteThat's such a sweet thing for Susannah to organize this for her loved ones, and I am glad the day worked out beautifully. Hopefully your daughter will be able to go with them next time. Interesting history on the word 'freelance'. Now I know!
ReplyDeleteShe's decisive, that's certain. ๐
DeleteYou were pretty spot on in your conjecture about the etymology. I’m glad that you got back to it and saved me the trouble of searching. I like learning such things
ReplyDeleteEtymology is so interesting.
DeletePoor Susannah, but that's the life of a freelancer. Just like artists. I'm sure another sailing adventure awaits.
ReplyDeleteShe's organising another day now . . .
DeleteI'm sorry that Susannah was unable to make the trip that she had made plans for. Thankfully the guys had a great time and the rain held off long enough for them to enjoy a day. Freelance is a word that I mostly think of in Writers.. Hopefully she will land a job that fits best for her and her schedule..
ReplyDeleteEmployment is difficult in UK at present. No-one can rely on keeping their job, it seems.
DeleteToo bad Susannah had to miss the day out. Getting the work is good though. Glad the guys had a good time.
ReplyDeleteShe has a mortgage to pay and other bills, so, yes, work is good.
DeleteOf course the men had an enjoyable day! Even males who love their wives and girlfriends are keen to get away from home every so often, and spend time with their male friends or relations. My husband plays golf every Sunday with seven other males who have been together for 20+ years.
ReplyDeleteSailing would appeal to me more, I must say.
Everyone needs a break from their families occasionally. I had a break, too. ๐ท
DeleteShame about the clash with the boat trip and work, but her livelihood had to come first.
ReplyDeleteDefinitely.
DeleteHi Janice - interesting ... the sign of the times - I feel for her ... but the 'boys' seemed to have got by ... without their loving organiser. Good luck to one and all - cheers Hilary
ReplyDeleteIt is a sign of the times, sadly, and very hard indeed for some.
DeleteI am glad for them that the day was much better than the forecast, weather-wise. Yes, it is hard to decide between professional needs and life outside work. Hopefully, current and potential future employers recognise the importance of your daughter’s reliability.
ReplyDeleteThe advantages are that she has worked for a number of employers in a fairly small world, so her name and reputation are known. The men came home looking healthy!
DeleteIt was a beautiful day here along the south coast, but it did pour down for a while in later afternoon.
ReplyDeleteThey were glad they went. They had oilskins for the wet weather, of course.
DeleteThank you for explaining the origins of the word 'freelance', and well done to your daughter on being able to make a tough decision!
ReplyDeleteThank you. ๐
DeleteWe all have to compromise in life for unforeseen events, but what a disappointment.
ReplyDeleteThe origin of freelance does not surprise me, nevertheless, interesting to know.
Life can be trying, sometimes.
DeleteMy eldest daughter - a textile print designer worked in London for a couple of big fashion brands, but decided to go freelance - just as Covid hit = very bad timing.
ReplyDeleteOuch! I hope her employment prospects have recovered now.
DeleteI can imagine her disappointment at missing the sailing trip that she had organised but, sadly, in these current times it would probably be unwise to pass up a job opportunity - especially if they are not easy to come by.
ReplyDeleteExactly so.
DeleteThese are the challenges sent to try us. I think that Susannah ( lovely name) made the right choice andI hope it will lead to more work for her. There will be other days for leisure.
ReplyDeleteThat is how she thought about it. She didn't want anyone to think she was letting them down, but, of course, they didn't.
DeleteHard choice to make, it seems, but not really. Susannah couldn't turn down a job to go sailing no matter how much she wanted to do it.
ReplyDeleteI've been in that position before and it's an easy choice, really, but not a fun one.
Common sense prevails in such circumstances.
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ReplyDeleteWith three grandchildren in London, there is always something to worry about. Last week Ben had to arrange new people for his house and then his landlord said she wanted them all to leave, obviously because of the new bill. The group pay several thousand a month, the landlord, who by the way lives in Dubai and has 60 houses for rent. But the arbitrary nature of it all, jobs with no contracts, rented flats going up in rents makes it very difficult for our young.
I share your concern. That is disgraceful, and renters don't seem to have any redress at all. Life is increasingly worrying and uncertain for the young.
DeleteI can definitely imagine Susannah's dilemma, but I'm sure she made the right and sensible decision.
ReplyDeleteThank you for explaining the origins of freelance, I absolutely had no clue. xxx
It didn't occur to me to wonder about it until yesterday! ๐
DeleteA word whose origins and definition truly make sense. ;-) It's unfortunate Susannah missed out on what sounds like a wonderful adventure, but it stinks to have to work for a living no in most cases.
ReplyDeleteLuckily she enjoys her work, which is some compensation.
DeleteThis was so interesting about how the term freelance came to be. The job market here is very difficult too. Sigh... Poor Susannah.
ReplyDeleteIt seems to be difficult everywhere. There's no certainty anywhere.
DeleteWhat a shame Susannah had to make such a tough decision.
ReplyDeleteThat's life!
DeleteFree lancing seems to be similar to an employed person being "on call" and needing to go in to work on days off or weekends or even public holidays sometimes. But without the safety net of being employed, that makes it harder. I hope Susannah continues to do well and hopefully finds a company to work for again.
ReplyDeleteThat is an accurate depiction of the job market for many at present.
ReplyDeleteWhat a shame for your daughter to have to miss out and disappoint but thankfully she had some work that possibly could lead to more work. She could always plan another boat trip (lol) -My sister in law does free lance and most of the time, it keeps her pretty busy.
ReplyDeleteShe has already organised another day. Hopefully, things will be more settled by then - somehow, I doubt it.
ReplyDeleteSorry a little late to this post but pleased to read she has already organised another day.
ReplyDeleteGood luck with her employment.
All the best Jan