Update on
the sickly one
In an emergency, the NHS is unbeatable. Wednesday 31st July was an interesting day.
After we agreed it was time for him to consult the professionals, Barry
filled in an online triage form in the morning, then ‘phoned 111 for
advice. That prompted someone to call him and question him further, and then
someone else called immediately to make an appointment for him at the Urgent
Care clinic, where the doctor there referred him to the hospital.
At A&E he was seen at once, admitted, scanned, x-rayed, and put on intravenous antibiotics and a saline drip in the Acute Medical Unit.
This all happened within four hours, from triage to hospital admission.
He had
pneumonia, which I had suspected from the occasionally crackling lungs and
wheeziness of the preceding two nights, but the diagnosis of sepsis came as a
complete shock. The doctor we spoke to thought that he’d had an initial viral
infection and then developed a bacterial infection on top. He was monitored thoroughly
and had two Covid tests, which proved inconclusive. (The Covid ward at this
particular hospital is still maintained as a separate ward and currently has
twenty patients in it. Lung infections are also very common at present.)
Anyway,
there he had to stay until the tests were repeated and found satisfactory. He’s
a good patient, asks lots of questions so that he’s completely aware of his
condition, and follows instructions carefully. He was full of praise for the
staff and as anxious to leave them as they were to see him go. Hospitals are hotbeds
(!) of infection. He was not discharged until he was taken off intravenous
antibiotics and given two lots of tablets, to be taken at different intervals.
He came
home on Friday, feeling as if he’d been away for a month. On Tuesday, he had another blood test at the hospital. Two days later he had an appointment with the local GP practice to follow up the possible skin cancer they noticed (!) and will have another x-ray in
a few weeks’ time and further blood tests as he is slightly anaemic. He has always taken good care of
himself and is very fit, so this episode has been a shocking wake-up call.
When we
think of hospitals, we think of doctors and nurses administering advice and
medication. What we often don’t consider are all the other things that have to
be dealt with. The cleaners clean the floors, unobtrusively. Porters cheerfully
transport non-ambulant patients at all times of day or night. Trolleys are
wheeled round at regular intervals with tea, coffee, cordials, water. Food is
brought, and in this hospital it was excellent – freshly cooked and nicely
presented. Fresh hospital gowns are provided daily and tests are conducted quickly
and courteously. Temperature, blood pressure and blood tests are taken through the night and analysed promptly
to inform the attending doctors of the state of play.
Some of
the patients are not at all appreciative. They complain all the time, and ‘please’
and ‘thank you’ are rarely on their lips. One man with dementia was very
distressed and so someone sat with him all night to try and calm him. Another
young man caused a disturbance and the police were called to attend to him. A
third man swore loudly and frequently and threateningly. During this, the staff
were calm, efficient, and cheerful. Many, in fact, probably most, of them are
not British, but hail from South East Asia, are poorly paid and save to send
money home to their families.
We take
our hats off to them and wish them better pay and conditions.
Meanwhile,
our youngest daughter is in France on crutches. Bethan tore a
ligament in her ankle just before she and her husband were due to fly. She
would have preferred to abandon the holiday, but her children were excited at
the prospect of going away and she didn’t want to disappoint them. In addition,
her husband takes little time off and it’s important for him to have a complete
break. I don’t think it’s a lot of fun for her, as her leg is very painful, but
it’s probably easier than trying to entertain two very lively little boys at
home.
She
needs to compare notes with our son-in-law. Paul fell off a ladder and damaged
his ankle badly, so he’s not very mobile. It’s not broken, but is an
interesting range of colours. He’s in a lot of pain, hobbling around with the
support of an elbow crutch, and fretting about the work he cannot complete at
the moment. Gillian is being kept busy ‘managing’ him.
Our middle
daughter, Susannah, did all the ferrying around on Wednesday and continues to
do so, despite her personal problems. She keeps the rest of the family informed, so there’s no glossing over
facts, even if we wanted to. Our son appeared at the hospital while we were
there on Thursday and it was so good for Barry to see him and have some male
conversation. Gareth worries, but not as vociferously as our
daughters.
It’s good
to be in contact with our family, but better when it’s in more relaxed
circumstances.
It will
be several weeks before we can assume that Barry is completely well again, but
his habitual cheerfulness masks the fact to outsiders that he has had an enormous shock. He
is very much better, but still puzzled that he succumbed to infection without much
more than a cough and feeling unusually tired.
Without the fitness trackers he wears, which record things like variable heart rate, pulse, blood pressure, stress, he would not have thought anything was amiss. Those signs, more than anything, alerted him.
There
will be no escape now from the Inquisition from our children. I have to grit my
teeth when I hear, ‘I know you’re fiercely independent, but you are getting
older . . .’
We have
been well and truly put in our boxes, though fortunately not the final ones.