The Final
Adventures of Frodo the Faller – a Trooper to the End
He had also been experiencing recurrent stomach upsets.
Courses of antibiotics and a change to an hypoallergenic diet helped – his
appetite was unaffected – a greedy Dalmatian is greedy to the endJ
However, it was clear that he was slowly deteriorating. His
system seemed to be breaking down and each new problem or setback took him
longer to overcome. He began to sleep longer and longer, sometimes as long as
eighteen hours, and each time I hoped and prayed he would quietly slip away but
he wouldn’t. The mange on his shoulder broke down within two weeks into a wound
that refused to heal, despite antibiotics, and it was clear that he would soon
be in a great deal of pain if it were left to attack the underlying tissues and
expose the bone. So, with great sadness, we let him go. We were comforted by
the knowledge that he had spent so much time with the vets that he was never
afraid of visiting them and so his final moments were with people he trusted
and who loved him.
Frodo was hard work when he first came home with us at five
months old. He liked all our family dogs but any unknown dogs were a challenge
and he would always make the first aggressive advance. Even in his (short!) show career he would attempt to
take lumps out of other dogs as he galloped past them. For that reason and also
because he never really liked shows we stopped subjecting him to them. In any
case, the small rings at dog shows don’t really allow dogs to show their full
potential. There is nothing finer than seeing a healthy animal at full stretch
in the countryside.
Eventually Frodo learnt to be more trusting and in his final
years he bore the attentions of puppies and other dogs with grace. He was such
a special dog – he had so many problems but he bore them all with stoic
determination. He was my Velcro dog, never happier than when he had me in his
sight. Indeed, when we went walking together he checked on me every few
seconds. Sometimes I would hide from him and he would rush back, a concerned
expression on his face. His relief when he ‘found’ me was palpable. He was
gentle with small children, the other dogs and the cats. Anyone could steal his
food from his bowl as he ate and he wouldn’t murmur, quite unlike his Labrador
companions! He was the top dog but never lorded it over the others. If he
wanted a particular bed he would loom over the occupant until he or she moved.
Naturally the cats refused to move and so he would climb in and lie down on
them. They moved then!
Like all Dalmatians (or
was it just ours?) he was an inveterate thief and we had to hang the
rubbish out of his reach as normal bins were no defence against his raids. The
medication he took twice daily to try and control his epileptic seizures made
him ravenous, constantly seeking food, not always from an appropriate source.
He started to eat Frankie’s books because they had miniscule applications of
food on them – toddlers are so apt to
deposit tasty morsels everywhere! His tablets also caused him to ‘leak’ and thus
he wore wraps or ‘loin cloths’ which added to his dignity rather than
diminishing it. He was much admired, even in old age, in the forest, my
elegant, loping boy. In latter months he wore a harness which enabled us to
lift him if he got stuck somewhere as occasionally his hind legs let him down
and he couldn’t extricate himself from whichever flower tub or bush that had
trapped him.
He taught us such a lot. We learnt how to comfort him after he
had had a seizure and was unaware of his surroundings – how frightening that
must be. We learnt how to lift him into the car for the journey to the forest
where he loved to walk. We learnt to be patient when he had ‘accidents’ in the
house because he couldn’t move fast enough to reach the door. He was a
fastidious dog and hated to be dirty.
We miss him – it’s only been four weeks – and I have not yet
broken the night-time listening habit that developed after his seizures began,
ten years ago. I am sure Bertie misses him, too, for he spends much time
wanting reassurance from us.
So ends thirty years of Dalmatian companions. I think we shall
not have another – all four of ours had different health problems, though the
first, Cariadd, was the strongest and the longest-lived.
Our last walk together . . .
Frodo - Washakie Lord of the Rings: 06.12. 2001 - 23.03.2015
I'm so sorry for the loss of your wonderful Frodo!! I had to do the same with my four-legged friend, Sam!!! It's been almost three years and I still miss him every day. Holding good thoughts for you!! Thanks for sharing the wonderful pictures!!
ReplyDeleteThank you, Sylvia - Sir Sam was a wonderful friend to you, I know. Such a sweetheart . . .
DeleteI am so sorry for your loss of Frodo.. I know how you feel when I lost my Goldie Girl.. Sending my hugs!
ReplyDeleteI am so sorry you lost your Goldie Girl - what a lovely companion she was for you. They just don't live long enough, do they, but the memories are priceless . . .
DeleteSo sorry you had to say goodbye to your friend.....he will be romping with the angels.
ReplyDeleteThank you, Delores - we all return to stardust and that's our hope and our salvation . . . I think . . .
DeleteIt's a wonderful tribute to Frodo but I'm so very sorry to read your news. Take care x
ReplyDeleteThank you, Jessica . . . all these companions leave their mark so that we never forget them.
DeleteOh, this truly makes my heartbreak. I have known Frodo through your blog. I am such a softie when it comes to the loss of canine companions. Truly I hope you get another canine companion, perhaps another breed. My love to you....saddened so much by this post.
ReplyDeleteThank you so much, Mary. Those that go before can never be replaced but it is a tribute to them that we seek out other companions.
DeleteSo sorry about Frodo. Looking at all the photos with no words at the beginning of your blog, I was thinking -- so right to have no words. The photos say it all -- well almost.
ReplyDeleteThank you, Chris. I had thought of just leaving the photographs to speak for themselves but decided I wanted to write something too.
DeleteI can understand how you miss him in every corner of the house. I had the same with the cats who shared my life for 20 years ! The grief lasts a long time but then the good memories come and it is getting better. In any case you took the right decision, it would have been selfish and cruel to let him suffer just for a couple of days or weeks more. At least he had a wonderful home and a very good life !
ReplyDeleteThank you, Ingrid.
ReplyDeleteEvery time he went to the vets in the last few months we always asked if it was time and they always said 'No' until the last time, a month ago.. At least he didn't suffer needlessly. He was happy until the end, still eating and enjoying his sniffs outside.
I love the third photo - running fast ears flying back. Just superb.
ReplyDeleteThanks, Mo - sheer luck;-)
DeleteOh, I'm so sorry. What a beautiful boy, and the pictures of him with the cats are just precious. And the flying-ear picture. Well, all of them. I like to believe, like that other Frodo, he is happily sailing in the Undying Lands.
ReplyDeleteThank you, Tammy. Me, too:-)
DeleteHi Janice - I'm so sorry to read this .. your animal posts are always wonderful and Frodo starred all the time .. I quite understand how you feel - and I bet his many friends in the forest, and especially those at home miss him ..
ReplyDeleteSo sad .. I am gently weeping for you all .. animals do that .. and yes wonderful photos .. thanks for telling us so gently - Hilary
Thank you, Hilary - they bring so much joy and then so much sadness but the joy wins every time.
DeleteA sad but also very nice posting.
ReplyDeleteLots of LOVE in your images.
Lots of HAPPY MOMENTS too.
Thank you, Gunn. He was a happy boy, despite his problems, and yes, he received lots of love.
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DeleteI'm so sorry to hear about Frodo. It looks like he was a great companion!
ReplyDeleteThank you, Sherry. It pales into insignificance compared to what your daughter has experienced.
ReplyDeleteCould you please pass the tissues? I am so sorry for the loss of your dear Frodo. I can only imagine how much you miss him. It is evident that he was well loved and cared for.
ReplyDeleteMy one and only dog just turned 13 and is showing signs of slowing down. It makes me sad to see. They really do become treasured family members.
On the upside, I'm happy to see you blogging again.
Thank you, Kim. Old(er) dogs (and cats) have a special ability to show the value of life. We humans are not young and agile all our lives and our pets teach us how the passing years affect us.
ReplyDeleteSo sorry for your loss of Frodo. This was a lovely tribute to him and what a very special soul he was.
ReplyDeleteThank you, Denise - he was special, but then, aren't they all?
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