A Life
full of Animals – the final part
I cannot leave this theme without paying tribute to the other animals in my life, the two-legged variety. I have chosen to use photographs of them as little beings, when they begin to resemble human beings, not the very smallest, newborn ones, when only the most besotted and closely-related can truly say, 'Oh, how beautiful' and sound as though they mean it!
Naturally, my children, grandchildren and great-grandchildren were stunning from the moment they were born, but they were the exception.
First. always and forever, is my husband. Here he is, at three years old, in India, where he lived for three years, He came back to the UK on a troop ship when he was six, better able to converse in Urdu than English.
I debated whether I should include a photograph of myself, but I am another animal in my life. As the youngest of three, the novelty had rather worn off for my parents, so there aren't many snaps of me. However, here I am at the Festival of Britain in 1951, aged seven. I'm the one sitting on the well-fed pony.
Gillian appears next. A blue-eyed, corn-gold blonde, after the Cooke fashion, she looked nothing like me, a hazel-brown-eyed brunette, and for a while I wondered if I had actually had anything to do with her as everybody remarked on how much she looked like Barry. She grew up to be a very pretty girl, but not particularly tall (the Cooke influence) and is now a loving mother to two blonde blue-eyed daughters and a brown-haired blue-eyed son, and a grandmother to 4, soon to be 5, all with blue eyes and blonde hair.
Gardening
So delighted were we with Gillian that we embarked on a second child and
Gareth was born twenty months later. Some people marvelled that a brown-eyed
boy should be born to a blue-eyed father. Once again, where was I in the
equation? Gareth grew into a handsome strong young man of 6’3” (the Mayne genes
asserting themselves here) and is now a devoted father to three, two sons
taller than him and a beautiful daughter, taller than her mother. All of them
have wonderful deep brown eyes, and very dark brown hair.
Purposeful
After a nine-year delay, when we had forgotten what caused it, Bethan
was born, a quietly beautiful brown-eyed blonde. She has two dark-eyed
brown-haired sons.
Marnie, Gillian’s eldest
Her sister, Shakira (Kiri)
In the gardenElliot, Gareth’s eldest child
His sister, Eve
Curious
Their brother, Louis
Susannah’s son, Frankie
Reading
Bethan’s elder son, Charlie
His younger brother, Jack
Then comes the beginning of the third generation.
Isla, Marnie’s elder child
Aye,aye, Cap'n
Fergus, her younger brother
Steering a course
Then there are Shakira’s daughter and son, Ariella and Luca, but we have no individual photographs of them.
Finally, for the moment, there is Callum's daughter, Melia, still incubating and due to join the world in March . . . and there will be others in the future, no doubt.
What sort of world will these little people grow up into? Each generation faces problems which seem insurmountable but thus far, we have overcome them or adapted to them. Perhaps there is a kernel of truth in the saw, 'Where there's life there's hope.'
I see the formatting has gone awry in parts. It's a good thing I'm not possessed of the demons that demand perfection.
Oh my goodness what a legacy you have left this world. They are all gorgeous. I laughed out loud at your comment about forgetting what caused it after a nine year lapse of births, I love your comment, Where there is life there's hope. So enjoyed this post!
ReplyDeleteThank you so much, Linda. I found it a little dispiriting, facing my mortality, but no doubt I'll bounce back.
ReplyDeleteLovely photos. I laughed at "After a nine-year delay, when we had forgotten what caused it,". It is quite a tribe you have brought into being. The future world? Humans are very good and clever at reactive behaviour. We can fix things.
ReplyDeleteWe can fix things, if we react quickly enough.
DeleteSuch a beautiful family. My own is a mix of brown and blue eyes with more blondes than brunettes. I am also expecting a great grandson in March, wondering if he will be brunette and brown eyed like his father or blonde and blue eyed like his mother, my grand daughter.
ReplyDeleteI look forward to hearing more of your great grandson. It would be quite a coincidence if your great and mine arrived on the same date.
DeleteWhat a beautiful family you have!
ReplyDeleteThank you, Kyra. You can go to the top of the class ;-)
DeleteHi Janice - all I can say is that was a delight to wander through the eras with you ... such fun. Sadly - none here ... but so be it - tis life - cheers Hilary
ReplyDeleteThank you, Hilary.
ReplyDeleteGeez you hardly worked to increase the English population ! I Just have two son and grandson and that's it.
ReplyDeleteWait until Toby gets married . . .
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