Friday, 5 December 2025

Girls and boys

 

Girls and boys come out to play

                            Image courtesy Wikimedia Commons

I first published this post on my blog on 5th December 2009.

The brilliance of the moon has led my mind to the old Nursery rhyme 'Girls and boys come out to play' and I began to wonder about its origins.

There are regional variations of this rhyme, but the commonest one is as follows:

Girls and boys come out to play,
The moon doth shine as bright as day;
Leave your supper and leave your sleep
And come with your playfellows into the street.
Come with a whoop and come with a call,
Come with a good will or not at all.
Up the ladder and down the wall,
A halfpenny loaf will serve us all.


Some versions add the following:

You find milk and I'll find flour
And we'll have a pudding in half an hour.

Alternative renderings place boys before girls.

The rhyme has been in existence since at least 1708 when the first two lines were printed in dance books. The earliest known collection of nursery rhymes was published in London in 'Tommy Thumb's Pretty Song Book' in 1744 and contained the first six lines.

Why, though, would children be invited to play in the street by moonlight?

Prior to the beginning of the Industrial Revolution (c.1760-c.1840) children often worked alongside their parents when the workload was heavy, for example during harvest. Once the Revolution was under way they became essential to the domestic economy when all able-bodied members of poor working class families were expected to work to bring in money. Under the Poor Laws, failure to provide for the family often meant that its members were sent to the Workhouse, where husband and wife would be separated from each other and their children. Workhouse conditions were grim, and degrading and people did their very best to avoid the destitution that would force them to seek support from the parish.

Thus were children from a tender age put to work, often in appallingly dangerous conditions. Many employers preferred to hire children as they were cheaper to employ than adults, were nimbler and could be used in confined spaces. For example, in the coal mines a child might start work at 2 o'clock in the morning opening and shutting wooden doors to let air into the tunnels. He or she sat in the cold damp dark, alone, with a single candle until 8 o'clock in the evening. Other children pulled the heavy trucks of coal or worked on the surface sorting coal.

Some boys were employed as chimney sweeps, often climbing up inside the narrow branching chimneys of grand houses, scraping off soot. When they emerged, cut and bruised, their master would rub salt water on their elbows and knees before sending them up other chimneys. Charles Kingsley wrote 'The Water Babies' which gives an idea of the life of a young sweep before his escape.

In the textile factories children might work for 16 hours cleaning machines while they were still running. Workers lost fingers and some were crushed by the huge machines. The smallest children were sent under the machines to tie broken threads. It mattered little to the factory owners if their defenceless labourers died – children were cheap in all senses for a dead child was easily replaced from the many in orphanages.

So, the poverty-stricken, hard-working children had little time for leisure. Generally starting work at the age of five many of them were dead before they were twenty-five, killed in accidents or through ill-health caused by lack of fresh air, good food, exercise, poor working conditions.

However, children will play when they have opportunity and this nursery rhyme gives an indication of when they might have been able to forget the harshness of their lives and enjoy themselves for a short while.

                            Image courtesy Wikimedia Commons

41 comments:

  1. I remember that song well. It always seemed exciting to play out by moonlight.
    Children worked from babyhood in the mines and textile mills. Even the supposedly progressive child labor laws of the nineteenth century were only about conditions, not about banning child labor even for the smallest children.

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    1. Health and safety weren't at the forefront of people's minds for many a long year. Now, they've gone to ridiculous lengths.

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  2. I only remember the first two lines but I don't think we sang doth. It was girls first, for me.
    As marvellous as the industrial revolution was, what a terrible cost it was to so many, especially to children.

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    1. Children were dispensable. Infant death was so common anyway, without dangerous employment.

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  3. The stories behind these old songs are always very interesting. Thanks for sharing this one.

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    1. Quite horrifying, and child labour is still common in so many countries.

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  4. I have never heard of this song or rhyme, but of course I know about the horrible conditions many children endured, and still do in some countries. As a species, we have always been really good at making each other suffer.

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  5. I thought that the track you would follow would be about moonlight and how, monthly, it enabled people from badly lit houses to go out and about in the dead of night. Long ago I lived on a Pacific island that had no electricity so when there was a full moon there was a lot of socialising and work activity. A full moon can be so bright that you can sit and read beneath it.

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  6. "Boys and girls
    Go out to play
    Happy and well
    The Laxette way".

    Everyone sang those lines in the late 1950s radio programmes. But I didn't know for ages that it was an ad :(

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    1. Is/was Laxette a laxative?

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    2. Yes, a laxative and I was going to write similar to what hels put. it was an ad on TV when I heard it and it showed children being given a small chocolate square before bed, then happily scampering out to play next morning.

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  7. I never heard this one before. Interesting history behind it

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    1. The poorest in any society suffer the most.

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  8. The ‘song’ is new to me but what a grim life for children of the Industrial Revolution.

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  9. Well, that little ditty brought back long forgotten memories.
    I am thankful that I was born into a generation that missed the workhouse as it could so easily have been an option for my grandparents.

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    1. I wonder how many people worked beyond their capacity to avoid the workhouse.

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  10. 16 years! And I have only known you for one or 2. So glad to read all you have written. My father was born in 1916 and went to work when he was 7 having quit school. A wonder he made it to 70. Those born decades and decades before what a hard life compared to my soft one.

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    1. It was a hard life. Seven is very young to leave school.

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  11. my dad was born in 1913. these are horror stories, and some still do this to children . My husband, born in 1936, worked from age 5 to 10 with his parents and 4 siblings in a sewing factory in Pennslvania. His mother worked there as a seamstress and when he started he had to sweep up all the mess from the days work. each evening, when the closed his family cleaned up the place for the next day. by age 8 to 10 he was pressing collars for mens suits...

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    1. That was a hard upbringing, but the reality for so many.

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  12. another one that I have not ever read. Life sure is different now days...even when I was young

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  13. Life has improved in so many ways, but there is still hardship for many.

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  14. We really don’t know how lucky we are nowadays, (in spite of the state of the country! ) have a good weekend! Sal 😁

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    1. You are right. We don't have as much to complain about as others.

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  15. How lucky we are to have been born 200+ years after that rhyme.

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  16. I wasn't familiar with this rhyme. Nevertheless thank you for sharing it and its origins. Children definitely weren't as treasured as they are now. It was a hard life for working-class people. xxx

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    1. People complain today, but most have little idea what hardship really was/is.

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  17. As hard as things can be in our modern day, we’re fortunate that we didn’t live in some of these times. I shut her to think of what these children had to go through.

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  18. Many thanks for this interesting post.

    Looking back in our History it was not easy for children and still now there is hardship for many. Child labour in some countries and child poverty in many ... including here in the UK.

    In 2025, it is projected that child poverty in the UK will reach approximately 4.8 million, representing a significant increase from previous years, driven by ongoing economic challenges and policy impacts.
    A sobering thought.

    All the best Jan

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  19. The real poverty in UK is shocking to see in a rich First World country.

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  20. Great post. Nursery rhymes are so interesting to look up the history of. When Granddaughter was here, I was singing her some of them. Three blind mice has a lovely sing-songy rhythm to it, but the words...eeek

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    1. If we thought too hared about the meaning behind rhymes and stories, we'd never repeat them. Rhythm is so good, though.

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  21. I had a book once about origins and meanings in nursery rhymes but it all seemed a bit dark - better to not know🤐

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  22. Such terrible conditions that very young children were forced to work under in years gone by and how cheap a life was counted as. Even today child poverty and exploitation is still rife even in rich countries like ours.
    Thank you for this reminder in your post.

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  23. Children aren't precious to everyone, sadly.

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